#ossasepia | 2019-10-19

01:05

well I'm "close!!11" but not there, and other duties call for now so the "extended end of day" of when diana_coman wakes is probably not happening either.

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01:37

jfw

and not all that close on further consideration, lol. Revised ETA 21:00 GMT.

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03:05

ascii_rack

diana_coman: 205.134.172.6 .

03:05

ascii_rack

diana_coman: please test & confirm when you get chance.

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07:20

diana_coman

asciilifeform: confirmed, thank you very much!

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08:06

diana_coman

jfw: lol; I'll put it down as Sunday-deadline and lump it all for reading with the younghands.club on Monday

08:17

diana_coman

whaack: footnotes plugin working on younghands.club now; it was there but not activated; as part of testing I've updated your post so it has proper footnotes now.

08:18

diana_coman

whaack: use your initials in the titles of *all* your posts there though.

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12:19

whaack

diana_coman: Thanks for activating footnotes, I added my initials.

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12:49

*

whaack is off to CR

12:55

diana_coman

safe travels

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16:29

asciilifeform

diana_coman: ok! and when you get chance -- test what sorta bw you get there -- atm you have entire pipe to yourself.

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16:56

dorion

hi diana_coman dorion-mode.com lives at 198.199.70.97 , i've started the draft of my initial article and aim to have it published by Sunday deadline. my approach at this point is to write in chronological order to document my ideological/intellectual development and decisions, which equates to fives articles to bring us to the present.

16:58

dorion

future articles that expand on the various nodes will back cite this initial series.

17:12

dorion

http://logs.ossasepia.com/log/ossasepia/2019-10-18#1006906 << fwiw, I spent a good chunk of my early 20s listening/reading ol' stefbot. my takeaway is he takes 'know thy self' and act with courage and integrity quite seriously. he focuses on encouraging people to apply their stated values to their personal relationships first and foremost, hence also the focus on childhood. "is the woman

17:12

ossabot

Logged on 2019-10-18 13:32:54 thimbronion: diana_coman: I don't think he did too much of that. For example, frequently told women complaining about their husbands that the problem lies largely with them. Each call starts with him getting to know the person, going over their childhood. Everything proceeds from there.

17:12

dorion

complaining about her husband because he actually sucks? or is it because it's cheaper for her to walk away from him than confront her sucky parents?" if the latter, it's obviously harder because she built up an internal mechanism from a young age, that's likely now subconsious, to repress the confrontation.

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17:29

dorion

http://logs.ossasepia.com/log/ossasepia/2019-10-18#1006888 << to expand here on my understanding of the process for evoking the want: 1) determine what value you have to bring / problem you can solve, 2) establish your ideal client profile (not all clients are +ev, 'strategic superiority', 3) develop questions from 1+2 to qualify prospects,

17:29

ossabot

Logged on 2019-10-18 13:16:41 diana_coman: so then what conflict? the whole point is exactly to engage with them so that they *want* to do the sensible thing; if they are at all capable of being sensible, sure, but the attempt has to be done to even determine that.

17:29

dorion

4) if they are ideal client, their answers to your questions result in them voiceing they have a problem you can solve and it's a priority for them to solve it by working with you. 5) manage the process of closing the deal.

17:31

dorion

easier said than done, like any skill takes practice and I'm not claiming to be a master of it.

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18:22

diana_coman

dorion: go ahead with the writing; at this stage there isn't much I can say on plans-only.

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18:50

dorion

diana_coman understood, will do, thank you.